Peter, it is possible that there’s more to this.
I am writing to you to ask you for your help. I have bot with my gf for overheen a year now. I want to be sensitive to hier needs and I want to be a good and supportive bf and paramour. The problem is this. When wij embark to loser around spil soon spil I touch hier nips she pulls away and tells mij to zekering. It puts an end to the mood. I don’t truly know what to do. Is this common? Can you give mij any advice?
There could be a duo of different things going on here. And I have some ideas to share with you, and some advice you can attempt.
Some fellows and women practice overly sensitive puffies due to a concentration of nerve endings. Your gf may have too much sensation ter that area. This would render hier incapable to love your caress. This isn’t your fault.
But the fatter problem isn’t the physical here, its your lack of communication. Instead of smacking your palm away or just telling “zekering”, your gf should be communicating with you. Ask hier what she’s experiencing. Ask hier too suggest another erogenous zone she loves like hier neck that you could kittle or stroke to bring arousal during make-out.
If every time you touch hier te a certain spot she tells you to zekering, then zekering touching hier there. Your touching that area without attempting to talk to hier about it very first could be exactly why there is a dialogue breakdown here.
If oversensitivity turns out to be the problem, I have a suggestion. Even people with the most sensitized of nips can usually treat their own touch. You could ask hier if she could gently touch hier own puffies while you witness. Maybe you could even waterput your arm overheen the back of hier palm while she does it. Even however you would not be touching them directly, you’d still be touching hier. This should be an exceptionally intimate and voluptuous thing you can share together. It could be wonderful for hier because it represents your patience, your thoughtfulness, your capability to listen to hier, and your desire to please hier. Even if she only wants to do this for a few seconds, its still an act of trust and should bring the two of you closer.
Peter, it is possible that there’s more to this. For one thing, maybe this is a symptom of a medical problem. If this sensitivity hasn’t always bot there, she should raadpleging hier doctor. Something spil slight spil a switch ter birth control pills could help. And maybe something spil big spil a mammogram is ter order. It’s best to be safe than sorry te thesis situations.
Another possibility is that maybe someone hurt hier merienda there. Maybe it wasn’t on purpose, maybe someone wasgoed just rough and insensitive, and she has that knee-jerk reaction to not let that toebijten again. Spil hier bf you need to know any drape ups or issues she has about the different aspects of love making.
Even tho’ this is just one puny part of make-out, which is only a part of love making, it is significant. You said it kills the mood. You have to dialogue about this. You have to talk to hier about what’s going on and find out what you can do together spil a duo to stir forward. Even if the outcome of the conversation is that this one area is going to be arms off, at least it’s an reaction. You’ll need to respect hier on this. You won’t attempt to touch them and she won’t say zekering, and hopefully eliminating that tense ogenblik will create a smoother flow te your make-out.
Thanks for this question. Good luck to you both.
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